Important for romantic relationships, sex is one of the most intimate moments between a couple. However, with routine, especially among long-term partners, keeping the flame always lit can be a challenge and, therefore, some techniques to innovate are welcome.
Improving performance in sex can be a great way to break the routine and ensure a lot of pleasure for both parties. For that, vibrators can be good alternatives — and the best part is, there are many options that can be used for different sensations. With information from “Popsugar”, check out five sensual ways to use a vibrator during sex:
1 – On the Nipples
The nipples can be a great erogenous zone. Therefore, it’s worth stimulating them in various ways, with your fingers, with your mouth, with specific clamps for this purpose or with a vibrator. “In tantra, it is believed that the breasts are the area where erotic energy is created,” highlights Jenna Schreck, a cosmic sexual wellness expert.
To stimulate the nipples with a vibrator, place the object lightly below the breasts and explore the area, going down to the belly and letting the imagination dominate, according to the responses of your partner.
2 – On the Outer Lips
Going straight to the clitoris might be a common reaction, as this is the erogenous zone of most female pleasure. However, it can be interesting to instigate your partner by using a vibrator around the vulva. “By spending time around the entire vulva, you are increasing the blood flow to the entire clitoris, which means when you get there it will be exponentially more pleasurable,” guarantees Schreck.
3 – On the Back
Starting the foreplay with a massage can be extremely exciting. In this moment, remember the back and take the opportunity to use the vibrator in the area, above the buttocks. Billy Beyer, founder of the sex toy brand Lickerish Love, suggests moving the object slowly through the area until “sliding it along the inner groin and thighs while increasing the pressure”.
4 – On the Pubic Bone
In the moment of sex, everything can be explored (with consent) to intensify pleasure, including the pubic bone. “You can test the different intensities and rhythms of the vibrator here to provoke your partner and see how they respond”, says Beyer.
5 – On the Perineum
The perineum— the area between the genitals and the anus — is a sensitive area for many people and, therefore, can provide a lot of pleasure, especially when stimulated by a vibrator, according to Schreck.
